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My partner and I are long-distance for the first time in years, and it’s really hard. How can we make it more bearable?

Being physically distant from your partner for an indefinite period is daunting, but there are ways to feel emotionally connected every day.
Your priority should be respecting your ex's personal space.

My girlfriend broke up with me for emotional cheating. She says she needs space, but is there a way to win her back?

Therapist Matt Lundquist said people who break trust in a relationship don't get to decide if and when trust is earned back.

My friend is in denial about the coronavirus and hasn’t cancelled her wedding. How do I tell her I’m not coming?

It's understandable you don't want to burn bridges with a friend, but sometimes you have to make choices that put your health first.
There's a whole world of sexual experiences that go beyond what's been deemed societally acceptable intimacy.

My girlfriend of 2 years has never had sex, but I want to. How can I get her on board without pressuring her?

You can move past kissing without going straight to penetrative sex and still feel sexually fulfilled. All you need is a little imagination.

I keep catching my husband masturbating, and I think he does it more than we have sex. Should I be concerned?

Comparing your husband's self-pleasure preferences and your relationship will only make you feel inadequate.
It may sound counter-intuitive, but forgetting to try to orgasm could actually help you orgasm.

I can only orgasm if I use the highest setting on my vibrator in a very specific spot. Is that normal?

You shouldn't feel shame about using a sex toy, especially if it helps you connect to your own body in a pleasurable way.
A partner who's truly invested in your relationship should be open to your thoughts, opinions, and suggestions.

I just found out my boyfriend of 1 year has a child from a past relationship. Should I forgive him for his secret?

If your boyfriend refuses to hear your side of the story, it could mean he's gaslighting you. You may want to confront him for his behavior.
In talking about your turn-ons and why you find them so sexy, you and your wife can better understand each other's desires and work together from a place of excitement and love, rather than fear and jealousy.

I’m a man who’s attracted to men. My wife is attracted to women, and wants us to try a threesome. What should I do?

Before you invite a third person into your marriage, it's vital you make sure your existing relationship is in a great place.
It's possible that past trauma has subconsciously informed how you think about romantic relationships.

I’ve never been sexually attracted to my partner of 5 years. Is it worth staying in a stable relationship without any intimacy?

Thinking about relationships in terms of extremes won't help you achieve the intimacy you're in search of.

I only get my period once every 3 months. What’s wrong with me?

It's possible your cycle hasn't fully matured yet to the point you get a regular period every month.